You’ve had a positive pregnancy test result, but how and when should you tell friends and family your news?
When you first find out you’re pregnant, it’s like a wonderful secret only you and your husband share. And in the very early days it would be hard for anyone else to guess as, until your bump starts to show, it’s unlikely you’ll have any tell-tell signs. So, when is the best time to let everyone else share your news? And what is the best way to tell them?
After your first scan
Deciding when you reveal your secret to others is a personal choice. Many women prefer not to announce their pregnancy until after the end of the first trimester at around 12 weeks. That’s because after this point the risk of a miscarriage drops significantly and it’s also about this time you’ll have your first scan, which can reassure you that your pregnancy is going well. There’s nothing quite like seeing your baby for the first time on screen. Don’t forget to ask the sonographer for a photograph of the scan so you can show everyone when you spill the beans.
Announcing early
However, if you’re suffering from early pregnancy symptoms, like morning sickness, you might not be able to wait that long. When you’re reaching for the sick bucket every few hours it can be very hard to keep the reason why a secret, especially if you’re working. In these cases you might want to tell colleagues and close friends and family earlier than the 12 week mark so they can offer support.
Waiting until the second trimester
If you have previously suffered a miscarriage, you might be tempted to wait a bit longer before announcing your pregnancy so you can feel more confident about your news. Some women keep it to themselves until they are well into their second trimester.
Whenever you decide to share the news it’s got to be right for you, so don’t feel pressured to do it sooner than you are ready – it will be worth the wait.
How to announce your news
The way you announce your pregnancy is also up to you. Some women like a big reveal with balloons and banners, while others prefer a more personal approach by telling those close to them in person. However you choose to announce it, sharing your amazing secret is likely to make it all feel more real and you can start to look forward to the big arrival with the love and support of your friends and family. Congratulations!
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