Getting the right balance between your work and family life can be a real struggle, especially when you have a young baby or toddler. Here are some tips and advice from those that have been there and done it.
- The right beginnings
Before you discuss your return to work with your boss, make sure you have thought about all of your options. You might want to go back in the same capacity, on the same hours as before you left or a flexible or part time position could be more suitable. If neither feel right, it could be the perfect time to re-think your career altogether and move in a different direction. Whatever you decide, go into any discussions with a clear idea of what you want but be prepared to compromise if they aren’t in a position to offer you exactly what you’re after.“QUOTE”
- Childcare options
Securing the right childcare will make your return to work a lot easier so start investigating options a few months before you are due back. Ask friends for recommendations and go and see as many settings as you can so you can pick the one that’s right for your little one. Ask lots of questions – will the nursery stick to any routines you have in place? What food do they offer? Don’t forget to think about the practicalities of the setting too – is it on your route to work? Can you park easily outside? Do they offer an early drop off or late pick up? Also consider all of your options – can your family help with any childcare? Can dad do any flexible working?“QUOTE”
- Get organized
To make those early starts easier, make sure you get as much done as possible the night before. Decide what you are going to wear, pack your little one’s bag, get the breakfast things ready and make sure your phone is charged! If you have the energy, batch cook up some easy meals to put in the freezer so there is one less thing to think about when you get back from work. In the morning set your alarm ten minutes early so you can enjoy a few minutes cuddling your little one before the chaos of the day begins.‘QUOTE”
- Switch off
Make the most of any spare time you have to spend time together and reconnect as a family. You don’t need to plan extravagant days out – your little one will enjoy just being with you doing simple things. Try to limit how much time you spend on your computer or phone when you’re away from work and try and carve out some time for yourself and your partner too.“QUOTE”
- Let go of the guilt
Don’t dwell on the fact you’re not spending every minute of the day with your little one. Instead focus on what your career can bring to your family financially as well as emotionally. Maybe you’re contributing to savings or for a holiday? And if you enjoy what you do, this will benefit the whole family – a happy mum means a happy baby.“QUOTE”
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